Shaking it more than three times is playing with it – How to Properly Shake Hands

For centuries in America shaking hands with someone has been the traditional manly greeting.  The handshake subtly delivers a message about yourself as well as an introduction.  In business it is a good tool in making a strong impression. The way you shake hands tells a lot about your personality and confidence.

Here are three simple rules about this manly art.

1- If this is a first meeting, introduce yourself by name while you are extending your hand and looking the person “in the eye”.  Your right hand should slide into the other persons right hand, stopping when the web between your thumb and index finger reaches theirs.  At this point you should squeeze their hand with enough pressure to form a solid grip. You do not want to appear too familiar or casual, just honest and respectful.  If it is someone you know then you can add a personal touch with “Whazz up?”, “Hey Dogg” or “How ’bout dem Bears?”

2- Shake only 2 or 3 times.  You are not trying to pump water up a well.  More than 3 pumps  can appear ridiculous and become awkward.

3- Remember that your grip should mirror theirs.  Not too hard, just firm and polite.  Easy there Tarzan… it’s not a strongman competition.

There you have it. Confident and professional.

When you come into Rock Barbers we’ll welcome you with a handshake that builds your confidence and anticipation of another great service.

Here are some other handshake versions and ways to say hello.

The “High Five”  http://youtu.be/-mMRY2N6s2I

The “Bro Hug Double Tap Back Combo”  http://youtu.be/u0FfCJ9M0hE